Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Jealousy is most common when somebody feels insecure, mistreated, threatened, or vulnerable in a relationship. If you feel secure in a relationship, you don’t get jealous. Jealousy is not the problem; jealousy is the SYMPTOM of the problem. Address the insecurity or the things underlying the feelings of vulnerability, and you address the jealousy. So the trick to making a poly relationship work is to make everyone involved feel secure, valued, and loved.

More Than Two | Polyamory: The Theory of Jealousy Management (via a-blog-called-everything)

so, so, so true!

(via littlelostpoly2)

So very relevant.

Notes

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